The Solution of Unity

That's the solution. Care, accountability. Intuition, justice. Let's start with accountability, since it's how it began. So now people must hold ourselves accountable. This isn't a question about man or woman, we are both in ignorance here, and it is both our faults. Just as feminism has been left unchecked and woman hurt by it, men have been faulty in allowing feminism to run unchecked, and for not articulating why that's not helpful in society, and for themselves fostering an attitude of haphazard neglect. Accountability. This lies with everyone.

There is some truth to what I was saying earlier about the fault of feminism, of men, and of accountability. The truth is that, if I really look around, both men and women do not communicate compassionately and openly, and both behave irresponsibly. The difference is the nature of it. Women, spearheaded in no small force by the feminists expressly fascistic in their fervor, will behave irresponsibly. When a woman behaves irresponsibly, it is often couched by them saying they have a right to behave irresponsibly! Women don't today behave more irresponsibly than men. They are more vocal about it, and they have this odd belief that they have a right to be unaccountable. The problem is hardly any better in reverse, in point. Men largely also behave irresponsibly, it's perhaps just slightly less noticeable, because instead of a passionate belief in lack of accountability, the modern man will use a sense of general lack of concern.

If you tell a woman to not say something unoriginal or foolish, she will say she has a right to do so, and that any countenance to the opposite rises up to the level of oppression. If you tell a man to not do or say something foolish, he will shrug and not necessarily proclaim having any particular right to, but will usually continue to do so with a flippant nonchalance. It's "I have a right to misbehave," versus "I just rather feel like misbehaving, and what of it?" It's difficult to say which of these two attitudes is worse. To be clear, I am ascertaining the nature of this problem to find a complex solution. If I can figure out the exact roots in people, I can diagnose a solution to fix it all. In a later segment, I may make clear why going to such detail, even laborious detail, is necessary. Until then, you will bear with me and understand my intent. Both of these attitudes are equally worse; you could even argue the male sense of general neglect about responsibility in the modern age is worse. At least women and the feminists are passionate about their ignorance. Men are passionate about what exactly? That's two strikes, as I see it.

So there is some truth to the idea that feminism is an issue, that male accountability is a concern. It just vastly oversimplified the real forces at hand, at best. And in reality what's going on involves both groups, and it's insufficient to pinpoint the blame on any in particular. The thing to take away is that women misbehave with a passionate belief in the right to do so, and men misbehave with a flippant nonchalance or naivety. Exceptions? Yes. But by and large it may be more helpful to point out the increasing ubiquity of this enterprise. Therefore, the solution remains with an open call to both men and women to behave responsibly, and to clearly articulate their concerns for one another. I suppose what can be said in addition is that we should understand that if you believe you have a right to misbehave or be selfish, you do not. If you believe it's fine to not be compassionate because it's unimportant, you're wrong; it is important.

Again, the problem is twofold here. 1) A lack of responsibility of both men and women. And 2) a lack of communication that is in good conscience between men and women. The utility in marking a distinction between men and women, even if it's everybody's fault, is because generally women and men miscommunicate and misbehave in a specific manner, so the solution is different. A woman miscommunicating must be told her passion is in the wrong place. A man doing the same must be told he needs to care about what he says, because it has value. That's because the nature of the miscommunication and misbehaving differs, as a helpful rule, between the two genders. Both items are crucial, and I will delve into literate solutions on both.

Remember, I mentioned that a big problem in America is not connecting rights with responsibility. I mentioned one of my favorite examples is lack of originality, of individuality, of creativity. People sit on their phones, scroll media, watch YouTube, and engage in a host of other behavior force-fed upon them. This lacks any real originality. Disturbing. With the freedom to do or say what you want comes the duty to be original. Free speech, for one, is not free unless it is individual. Government censorship is not the only thing that threatens free speech. If people repeat the same ideas, half-heartedly, they've heard from the same dozen sources before, this poses the same risk to free speech as censorship. Because a stolen idea is not free speech. It's force-fed speech. Free speech demands a willingness to use it freely. Guys, girls, everybody, let's make sure that when we speak, we speak originally. I run into people and they want to tell me a joke or a story, with good intentions, but it's clear they got the joke from somebody else, very often without even adding a small twist. That's not your joke. That's not even a joke. That's a regurgitated blob of meaningless content you don't own or know. You've got to stop that.

Why do you have to stop that? Because that's not what free speech was made for. The Founders made it clear in documents surrounding the Bill of Rights that free speech, which has portions of it protected by the First Amendment, also includes an implicit duty to use it wisely, to say things that are your own. There is no free speech unless people use it independently. I want to hear what people on their own have to say, not what they steal from others because they're too incompetent or pathetic to come up with their own ideas.

This is the social contract, anew. Men and women, fundamental, choose to perform the best.